Have you ever been harshly criticized or bullied by others?
When I was a child, I was bullied too.
I used to think, “Why am I the only one who suffers like this?
But the cause was not the bully, but the atmosphere I was giving off.
Being bullied has to do with spiritual vibrations.
When I was a child, I was often harshly criticized by others.
Even recently, one of my friends said to me, “For some reason, I feel that no matter what I say to you, Mr. Obama, you will forgive me….
Actually, this phenomenon is caused by the spiritual vibrations I emit that make people want to say such things.
This spiritual vibration, depending on how it is used, can be an opportunity to build good relationships, but if it is used in the wrong way, it can also be a cause of being bullied.
When I was a child, I didn’t know how to use spiritual vibrations, so the other person thought, “I can do anything I want to this person,” and that led to me being bullied.
Bullying is related to spiritual vibrations.
There are three main types of people in the world when it comes to bullying.
- People who are bullied by someone
- People who bully someone
- People who are not interested in bullying
People who bully someone do what they want to do to someone else because they are comfortable doing so, without even being aware that they are bullying.
People who are not interested in bullying do not feel comfortable with bullying, so they do not bully anyone.
But those who are bullied do not feel comfortable with being bullied.
But it is expressed in spiritual vibrations.
For example, it is an atmosphere that makes the bully think, “I can do anything I want to this guy.
If you are giving off that kind of vibe, you need to adjust your spiritual vibrations.
How to avoid bullying between children.
This is a way to avoid the bullying that children do to children.
The way to avoid bullying is to “respond to dark energy with dark energy.
For example, suppose that a person who is emitting a dark energy that makes you think, “I can do whatever I want to this person,” comes in front of you.
If you give that person an air of “If you think you can do whatever you want to me, then don’t complain about anything I do to you,” or if you actually act on it, the person will be turned off.
However, when you direct your dark energy toward them, you are inevitably increasing your own darkness as well, and you will regret it in some way later on.
Bullying children is cruel in a sense because children’s brains are not developed and they are not able to discuss it.
Children cannot control themselves if their hearts are inclined toward darkness.
So this is one way to avoid bullying between children.
I want adults to do it, and how to avoid it with light.
Even adults can be bullied if they create an atmosphere of “this person can do anything.”
However, when the light in your heart is stronger, you will be able to resolve the situation peacefully instead of in a child-like way of retaliating.
As the light of the spiritual wave that you exude becomes stronger, more people will be able to protect you.
And the person who did something thinking, “I can do anything to this guy,” will himself reflect and say, “I went too far. I’m sorry.” And then they will apologize.
If the light becomes stronger, the moment the bully thinks, “I can do whatever I want to this person,” the bully will naturally change his or her mind and say, “Oh, I’ll stop it after all.
These are the methods I have actually used to avoid bullying among children and adults.
Your spiritual vibrations will change what they think of you.
People are always emitting spiritual vibrations.
The spiritual vibrations they emit change the way people around them react to them.
An example of a spiritual vibration that causes people to bully you would be,
- An atmosphere that says, “It doesn’t matter what I do or say to this person.
An irritating atmosphere. - An atmosphere of “I want to control this person.
- An atmosphere that makes you look like an idiot. (An atmosphere that makes people think, “Is this guy crazy?)
etc.
In other words, you cannot know what kind of atmosphere you are giving off unless you objectively look at yourself and ask yourself, “How am I being seen by people around me?
To be objective about yourself, analyze carefully what they say and do.
What kind of mood am I giving off?
In order to know this, you need to know the other person who is perceiving the atmosphere well.
How do you think you are perceived by this person?
In this way, you need to analyze the person’s words and actions.
Once the results of the analysis are obtained, the next step is to try to change the atmosphere in order to see how the other person’s reaction will change.
At this time, too, it is necessary to carefully watch the other party’s reaction.
If the person’s words and actions change for the better by changing the spiritual vibrations (atmosphere) that you create, then the experiment has been a success.
Summary.
Gozo Shiota Sensei, a Japanese aikido master, said, “It is important to get along with the person who is trying to kill you.
However, I believe that this does not mean “getting along with a murderer,” but rather “getting into a state where your spiritual vibrations are such that the other person’s intent to kill you disappears.
If you try to change people to suit your own convenience, the phenomenon will never change.
Instead of trying to control the other person by saying, “I want that person to change,” try to focus on changing yourself.
It would be truly amazing if you could become the person that the other person can always be at peace with.
By doing so, you may be able to take a shortcut to solving the problems you are having.
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